Wednesday, July 20, 2011

Does this girl like me?

So basicly I've known this girl for a while but we never seemed to hang around that often, but I hung around her brother. So lately we've been actually hanging around and she convinced me to watch a show called Skins (U.K). I want to know if she likes me cause i'm one of those kind of guys that can't read faces and emotions very well.

Phycology or Psychiatry? Please Help?!?

Im only 16 but I'm starting to think about my future and career seriously. I really want to be a phycologist, I love to help people and figure people out. I love the mystery behind human thoughts and emotion. But, now that I'm looking more into it I don't know if I want to be a phycologist or a psychiatrist? Please tell me the difference between them, I know a psychiatrist can prescribe medicine but what are some other contrasts? I would also like to know how much each salary is yearly. Which usually makes more? Maybe if you are a phycologist or psychiatrist you can give me personal info. Or maybe you know someone who is one? Any information will help me out. Thank you so much! :)

What is the name of this movie starring a young blonde female protagonist?

I saw this movie on in the mid-90s on HBO, it's about the life of this blonde female in her teenage years or early twenties. I only remember bits and pieces like how she is in jail and makes a weapon by melting her toothbrush bristles and placing a razor in them. Also, I distinctly remember her getting into a car with a man and asking him if he would like to have sex, after he pulls his pants down she sticks him in the trunk of the car. Anyone know what this movie is called?

Backing a horse past a spook?

My horse sometimes has issues leading on a trail ride, and sometimes he will just stop, out of nowhere. I've never really had problems with him not walking past a spook, but i do back him when he gets stubborn and wont walk forward. That is what i have always been told to do, because it gets their mind off of whatever it is that's bothering them. And i believe it is a good strategy that works. It is certainly better than letting the horse get his/her own way!

How to guide my boyfriend into a less embarrassing kind of 'goth'?

Ah I hear you, he's opting for the mallgoth/poseur look without any inclination about the gothic subculture whatsoever. I'm afraid there's nothing you can do about it other than to tell him straight up. Better he hear it from you then someone else. Maybe he will realize how much of an idiot he looks but I'm sceptical of that.

Why does god throw all these challenges on my family?

I'm 18 and I live in Brooklyn in a harsh neighborhood. First I'll begin with my beliefs. When I was younger, I didn't believe in god even though I was baptized and christian born. Lately I've been feeling more spiritual with myself and even though I didn't believe in god, I still read about Christianities history and laws (due to my huge interest in history). Now, I don't fully believe in god (although I do believe in a single 'energy' up there) but I still follow many of his laws and try to keep my sins to a minimum (even small things such as not littering). I was always a kind kid always wanting to help people and just have friends and find love. However, because of the harshness of my area I was led to drug abuse and scams (although they weren't as extreme level as most of my surrounding people). I;ve been praying for my safety and my moms safety. In return, I had my car vandalized for $10,000 of damages (because of one of my friends actions), last week again all my tires were slashed (again because of something other people did) and I can't do much about it, even though I never meant the people that did this to me any harm or scams. On top of that, a year before, my dad had an affair with my mom and left us, took almost everything we had from us, and left us in bankruptcy. Its just me and my mom living in a rented apartment with low on money and my mom is trying extremely hard to find a job. She's been having health problems because of the seperation and her emotions are getting worse rapidly because she's losing hope of finding a job and our cash reserves are running very low and I pray for the best, mostly for my mom even before myself. In my junior high school and high school years, I never had friends and instead everybody would always make fun of me because I couldn't properly adapt, instead of partying I would stay home and read about politics, military, history, and music because those were my interests but everybody around me thought otherwise. I never had a girlfriend because I never was the type of guy to have sex with a girl and leave them or play around with their emotions because love around here is just a game, and all the girls that I liked have rejected me always. As for my drug abuse, I do them significantly less as before and been trying to just get away from everyone I know for a while now, because theres no trust here at all between people that I've even known for years, which led to my car being vandalized more then twice and other instances which cause a high alert for me and my mom, which naturally makes my street experience rise. Me and my mom go to church every now and then and I still like to talk with god and ask him for help, but everything just seems to get worse, that I only have enemies around and no real friends, not me nor my mom. I don't think I've ever sinned so much to deserve all this and I ask for forgiveness for anything bad that I've done. I heard that karma usually hits hard for something my family has done before, but this is too much, will god ever help us? I just have no clue where else to turn too.

Can't control these reactionary emotions?

This girl that I have had deep feelings for broke out during our conversation this morning that she had sex for the first time with her ex-boyfriend when they were together. After a certain amount of sex, he dumped her. When I heard this, I just didn't know what to say. I'm very old-fashioned, and hearing this just made me break down emotionally. I didn't expect someone like her to do this until she was eighteen or..ready. It's been on my back this whole day; I can't concentrate while I play with my dogs, use Facebook, or even when I'm communicating with another person. It hurts. And I don't understand why.